Hi P~6 teacher~ I absolutely agree with sticking to the scoreboard and utilizing that longer. Remember that YOU are in control of the game~ and a big part of keeping the motivation going is by ping ponging them back and forth on the board. They should not know what is coming. The key is to not become predictable and "always" reward a certain way. Keep them on their toes. There are also other fun scoreboard tweaks you can do to change it up during the school year (students vs. teachers, boys vs. girls, fast vs. slow, etc). I encourage you to watch the Webinar that focused on Scoreboard strategies~ because as we always say~ it is a LONG year!
However, after you have being using the scoreboard and you are getting about 80~90% your students actively engaged and following the rules, that is about the time to incorporate the practice cards. You are right about the "practice" rather than "scold" mentality. Which is why the practice cards work so well with students that need just a little bit of "extra practice".
When it comes to parents~ I tell them about our management system at back to school night. I inform them that during the first few weeks of school we will be practicing how to follow rules and routines. I also explain to them that after we have had adequate time to practice as a class~ there may be some students who will still need more "practice" and that if they do, they will be practicing following the rules during their recess time. I tell them that if their child is needing this extra practice time, they will receive a note informing them of the rule that their child is working on, with a request to have their child spend some time practicing at home. I also explain to parents how important their support is and how much I value them. I stress to parents that a huge predictor of student success is parent involvement and that if we work together their child is guaranteed to be successful.
Of course by the time I actually have to use the practice cards, back to school night is long gone and they probably have forgotten what we talked about. Therefore I use my Weekly Report (a report that tells about what is going on in our classroom each week and then tells the parents how their child is doing) to inform parents how we are getting along in our management. The report tells the parents how we are moving along and gets them prepared for when we will be transitioning to individual practice time. This helps it not to be such a "shock" when we move to the practice cards. This dialogue really seems to help parents to have a deeper understanding of what we are doing and why we do it. I find that this helps more parents to be supportive and to "buy" into the system.
OF course there will always be parents who probably belong in the independent group themselves
, however, know that WHAT you are doing (changing negative behaviors) and WHY you are doing it (to increase student learning and to help "problem" students) is probably better than anything that child has received thus far and use that knowledge to empower you and to stand firm when you face problematic parents. Your are using discipline and boundaries with consistency, caring and fairness~ rather than scolding and punishment~ and that is the difference you will be making in a child's life!