This is such a great question and one that I dealt with at the beginning of this past year! Here was my response:
I understand that many of you may be used to individual behavior grades and reports. However, in our classroom, as well in society in general, it is important that we learn to work as a team. We must learn how encourage each other, set examples for each other, and in the end come together for the common good. The scoreboard, in the beginning of the year, helps us to learn this cohesiveness that will carry over into your child's everyday life. There will be a time in which individual behavior will be addressed and your child will have every opportunity to shine like the bright star they are! We will have leaders that will step up and lead the class in various activities (just like life outside the classroom) and we want each child to lean how to be a leader, not a follower! If you will give our classroom behavior plan a chance, you will see that your child will rise to the top and become the leader and star you already know they are!
After my response, I really didn't have any problems. Sure I had parents that were skeptical, but in the end they were so happy with the "family" feel in my classroom that they were requesting that my students siblings coming into Kinder be placed in my classroom. Once they saw the results, they believed. Many times we as parents just go into a natural protective mode. We all think our child is perfect and an angel (unless you are me lol...who knows that my kids halos are held up with horns some days). Just be as understanding as you can but ultimately it is your classroom. There will come the time for the individual behavior reports and the parents of the little "challengers" in your class will be wishing there was just the scoreboard again!
HTH
Farrah Shipley
WBT Texas
Co-Director Model Classrooms